In North America when people meet each other for the first time.
在北美,当人们第一次彼此见面时。
I see. I'll go and check.
噢,原来是这样,那我再去查查看。
but as soon as a the question of prestige arises, as soon as you feel that you and some larger unit will be disgraced if you lose, the most savage combative instincts are aroused.