Con-

con [[kɔn]]

vt. 精读, 仔细研究, 默记\\nadv. 反面地, 从反面\\na. 欺诈的\\nn. 反对者, 反对票, 肺结核\\n[计] 控制台

Something borrowed, something blue.

借的东西， 蓝色的东西。

That's a misunderstanding .

那是个误会。

Being a good listener means much more than just listening with ears. Eyes mean that I should look at you while you are speaking as a sign of respect. In other words I should not watch TV, or look over your shoulder at other people while we are talking

作一名好的倾听者，决不只是“用耳朵听”。“目”字的意思是，你说话时我应当看着你，这是尊重对方的表现。换句话说，当我们在一起谈话时，我不应当看电视，也不应当越过你的肩膀瞅着别人。